I’m a Canadian expat living in Madrid, Spain. Yes, I left Canada to live in Spain, but don’t get me wrong, I’m fond of Canada. Who doesn’t enjoy the benefits of free health care? Spain has it too, though. Canada has great people, and so does Spain. Are you catching onto my point? If not – both countries are cool. Despite the similarities, they are different countries, and within that umbrella comes an array of different cultures. Sometimes the differences in the Spanish culture shine through like the sun, positively speaking, and other times it makes me ask myself if I belong here. I’m not a newcomer, so I have learned some things here and there, but there’s always room to learn more! It’s like a journey. The question of integration always pops up; it never seizes to prove its importance.
Are you an expat and have faced interesting experiences dealing with the culture of your second home? Share them please!
Signing off –
Shamim Sobhani
I am also Canadian and lived for 14 years in England. I loved it there and learned to change my pronunciation of words like yogurt , controversy and aluminum. When I came back to Canada I had to change my accent back again..
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Sounds like a lot of work for the same language. I’ve had to do something similar in Spain, since I learned (or should I say “learnt”?) Spanish in Latin America.
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I lived in Beijing for three years and loved it. I travelled around so much on weekends as I was working over there and just had some fabulous adventures. Hope you enjoy your adventures.
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That’s amazing that you took advantage of your weekends while you were in Beijing! I need to travel more around Spain since there’s so many cities and little towns I haven’t seen yet.
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Not an expat, but I do have a house in France, and, although I like both cultures, I would never leave my home in England. A good, thought provoking, post
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You’ve got prerogative to do that. “Expating” isn’t everyone’s cup of tea and that’s perfectly fine 🙂 It’s a personal choice.
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Hello! Another Canadian living in Spain, specifically Lebanese Canadian whose family lives in Halifax and Lebanon as well.
I find similarities between my Lebanese culture and the Spanish culture, and that part I love. I always see some sort of parallel, after all, for many years Arabic as a language and culture had influenced Spain.
I also see differences between the Canadian and Spanish cultures. Spanish people have a different rhythm of life in terms of going out and having drinks for example. Where my Spanish partner is from, when out, everyone scrambles to pay the bill, instead of each person paying their part as in Canada. I find that that is one of the bigger differences. It’s not negative nor positive, it’s a cultural difference and even varies among regions within Spain, but Ojo, don’t pay for your drink and only your drink, it looks bad! Usually when we go out with friends, we’re a mixture of various cultures and we each put some money in a “bote” and pay from there for example. There’s always the linguistic difference, feeling overwhelmed by Spanish, not knowing how to communicate a point or say something, but part of survival in another country is learning to say what I need to say in a different way, and somehow, I always manage it.
I’ve learnt to appreciate all three of these cultures and have adopted things from each one. I’ve been in Spain four years now and love it. Having lived in Canada, Lebanon and Spain, I’ve felt that I’m not particularly just Canadian, nor just Lebanese, so Spain is a good balance between both countries and cultures for me.
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Hi Nicole, thanks for taking the time to stop by and respond! I think it´s admirable when it´s customary for everyone to scramble for the bill. I don´t see that with Canadians too often. It shows that there´s a certain level of trust and great comfort between friends (not that there isn´t trust between friends who don´t do that). As a third culture child, like you, I feel like I´m balancing the three cultures sometimes, and it can get overwhelming. My parents are Iranian and I grew up in Canada. On top of that, I was born in Sri Lanka, but we escaped a broiling civil war and fled for Canada when I was a toddler. It´s definitely anything but boring living in Spain!
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I’m impressed you can move to an entirely new country. I have trouble changing states!
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It depends on lots of factors, and the type of person one is too! It hasn’t been a walk in the park, though an adventure yes!
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Enjoy journy always.i have not go abroad of India but in India’s defferent states are different from each other.here i have felt like u those controversial cultural things bt really most funny.
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Haha yes, I have heard how different Indian states are from each other. Thanks for reading my blog!
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Welcome dear shamim.u r lucky because u can travel around d world.dis is a dream for me.ciao.
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I’m an expat living in Bangkok. As much as I love living in Thailand everyday has it’s little challenges! Sometimes they can be frustrating but mostly they are entertaining and enlightening!
So happy to have found your blog – great stuff!
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Thank you! I agree that an Expats life has had its ongoing challenges but all in all I’ve been fortunate.
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As a sometime expat or maybe a very slow traveler, having lived in England and Panama, I am feeling the urge to go as I have been back in the U.S. almost two years. Now the question is where. I don’t think Europe is very affordable but is my first choice otherwise. I spent a few months in south of Spain about 27 years ago and think Sevilla has a lot to offer, or did anyway. 🙂
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I would presume sevilla is affordable compared to England and France; have you thought about moving back there?
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Yes, though I admit I have a liking for the Netherlands too. I’ll make a decision later this year as I am thinking of moving in early 2018. 🙂
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